As full grown woman SOME of us occasionally look to be reminded that we are unique complex And beautiful in our own individual right. And we are - all of that - Each of us!
But, take a second to think about this, if we sometimes find ourselves looking for reassurance And affirmation... imagine how confused lost And uncertain SOME of our daughters nieces, And the younger generation as a whole, are.
I mean IF we as mothers aunts etc., don't realize how precious priceless dynamic And undeniable we are, how can we expect the young-ins to know who And what they are?
We're surprised when we see them putting value on big behinds thick thighs And large breast... And - yes - all of that is lovely - BUT shouldn't she know that it's her inner development that truly determines her self worth?.. Priceless!
And as not to offend anyone, I'm certain many of us already realize this (I mean I'm not blogging about anything any sensible woman don't already know) BUT we must question THEN why - IF there ARE so many of us who "already know this" - do we have so many of our youth who are uncertain of who they are || of how they should present themselves || of what their true value really is || or what direction they should go?.. And I'm speaking of a multitude not just 1 or 2.
- We shake our heads when we see them 'Twerk' (sensually dancing)
- We cover our mouth point our finger And whisper when we see them scantily dressed
Rather than sit in judgment of what we think is improper - wouldn't it be more productive to enrich a young girls life?.. Do you have the desire to let one two three, OR MORE, know they are precious jewels?.. Wouldn't you much rather wrap them with words of loving kindness And say to them "You are beautiful"... "May I teach you how to better love yourself"... "You are amazing; let's direct your thoughts And actions toward a substanial future"... "the love you're searching for - must first be realized - inside of you - not simply in a mirror" ... ... ...
I am primarily concerned withA solution (I lay judgement and finger pointing aside) I welcome the opportunity to communicate - love - through action, deed, verbal And written expression *smile*
"Each one Teach one"... An old African Proverb that can certainly be reintroduced And utilized today *smile* IF you too havA voice And desire to share, leave your comment here, or hit me up @PoodleTweeting "Effective communication in love" Poodle
Excerpt "Having Tea with My Sisters"
"It is absolutely imperative that we initiate a positive developmental pattern, in our youth, instilling a certain level of morality and positive precepts in our sons, daughters, and younger generation as a whole. Our children are our future – a cliché – but true nonetheless..."
Excerpt "Having Tea with My Sisters"
"It is absolutely imperative that we initiate a positive developmental pattern, in our youth, instilling a certain level of morality and positive precepts in our sons, daughters, and younger generation as a whole. Our children are our future – a cliché – but true nonetheless..."
SB: THIS post was Inspired by Jada Pinkett-Smith
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